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  • Selena says:
September 27, 2011 at 12:58 pm
I call BS on Jean’s “halfway” exclusivity as per J’s post below.

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  • Andrew says:
September 27, 2011 at 11:20 pm
The only rule is that there are no rules in love and war. What I genuinely dislike is people trying to do things in an absurd confrontational way. I suppose if you follow the rule I first mentioned, then that’s ok, but really I would rather not hang around for that and a lot of guys feel the same way.

It’s not always what someone does, it’s often about the way they do it. I think it’s important to own one’s feelings. Clearly state that the way you feel has changed. Clearly express to the other person that you would be understanding if they cannot adjust to the new feelings you have. I think if she had followed such a path, the OP would be in an entirely different mindset.

The problem is that people like to lay down the way things are going to be. Everybody is a hardass. But in the end we all hate ultimatums and barely tolerate veiled ultimatums. So we really need to watch how we are putting them out there.

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