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http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/SexDifferencesinHuman.PDF and
"Attractive Women Want it All: Good Genes, Economic Investment, Parenting Proclivities, and Emotional Commitment" [http://www.epjournal.net/filestore/EP06134146.pdf]

– regrding short-term mate preferences I refer you to:
“Different cognitive processes underlie human mate
choices and mate preferences” [http://www.pnas.org/content/104/38/15011]

“Attractiveness and sexual behavior: Does attractiveness
enhance mating success?” [Rhodes et al; Evolution and Human Behavior 26 (2005) 186–201]

These references should start you off. I also recommend that you get hold of an introductory book on evolutionary psychology such as Buss’ http://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-listing/020569439X Any introductory book that covers mate selection will rebutt your claim that attraction can be created.

The last 20 or so years of discovery in neuroscience, social psychology and evolutionary psychology contradict what you are claiming.

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