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Word of advice, don’t ask. The man knows what you’re getting at, and if he has the bad intentions of just trying to nail a black chick, then he’s just going to lie so he doesn’t fuck it up.

Good advice in general. Whenever you think you’re being sneaky and asking the man a pointed question to make a judgement call about him, assume the man has figured this out, and that hearing the answer you want may just be an indicator that he’s a liar, and not that he’s what you want.

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kilo Juliet says:
June 15, 2011 at 1:31 pm
Yes black women have it harder online. They send winks all day or they are twice your age. But no one you would want to know more about ever contact you. I think we should stop looking online. We are wasting our money. It does really seem like no one seriously want us. The choices that do just don’t cut it. I find the ones who contact me just want to have fun or have more than 3 children and were never married to the mothers. I’m like why would I deal with you? You can’t commit.


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